Carol Bradley Bursack from Minding Our Elders has written this excellent article about resolving issues with siblings while caring for parents. This was published on the website www.AgingCare.com. Please read the linked article in its entirety and share it with siblings who are being less than cooperative.
Link: What to Do When Siblings Can’t Agree on a Parent’s Care Needs
Carol Bradley Bursack, Minding Our Elders
Preparation and Cooperation Are Key
Calling a Family Meeting
Strategies for Getting Siblings on Board with Caregiving
Option 1: Geriatric Care Manager
Option 2: Counseling
Option 3: Elder Care Mediation
Deciding to Bring in Outside Help
Carol Bradley Bursack's biography and credentials can be viewed here.